I’m happy to report that Lil Smudge and Mom are both officially in good health!

Wendy, my favorite midwife at our medical practice, says that my blood pressure is "amazing!" She’s also happy with my weight gain, Smudge’s size (based on the tape measure size of my belly), and the sound of his little heart.

I am back to thinking that he’s somewhat of a big boy — the belly measurement at this point averages 1" per week, and we’re about an inch or 1.5" ahead of that. BUT that’s not out of the normal range.

She also thinks he’s head down at the moment, although he may roll around and continue doing flips for the next few weeks. If he isn’t head down at 36 weeks, apparently we try to prod/annoy him into the correct position.

I’ve also put on a little more weight than I hoped I would. It is what it is, and I’m certainly not going to try to gain less (or god forbid, lose) during these last two months. Smudge gets whatever he indicates to my body that he needs. But I’m on track to put on a total of just under 50 lbs, which seems like a lot, even if he turns out to be a big baby.

One or another of the books I read on vacation talked about setting a goal of losing the pregnancy weight over the course of the first year of being a Mom. I think that’s a good goal, probably managable, but not too aggressive or unhealthy sounding. And it will take some discipline. But hopefully it will also give me my stamina back.

And on that note, Fruit & Veg Count, 11/29: 1 amazing organic gala apple, 1/2 cup green beans, 3/4 cup "celery mashed potatos"

We didn’t take a LOT of pictures, but we took a few. Here are my favorites:

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This doesn’t really capture how beautiful the beach was, but you get a little sense of the turquoise water and the lovely weather.

And you can see why I had to be Extremely Responsible to keep my sun exposure minimal. I stayed under the umbrellas the entire time, except when splashing around or walking to and from the ladies room.

Liza_jillHere we are at a "Lolo" — an outdoor barbeque place in Grand Case.

As you can see, my sunscreen efforts weren’t 100% successful. That was the day I stayed indoors most of the day to let the sunburn heal, and after that, I switched to the waterproof sunscreen and limited my time in the water to only ~15 minutes, maybe twice/day.

All I have to add is OUCH.

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And last, but not least, here are the 4 of us after dinner on our last night.

Mikki & Claire were so sweet — they took us out for my birthday. We ate at a fabulous romantic restaurant, with seats along the waterfront in the marina in Marigot. And my sweet girl gave me the rose and all that bling I’m wearing.

(If you look closely, you can see that the necklace symbolizes the new family — two pink stones surrounding a blue stone.)

Here’s a massive multi-book set of mini-reviews for the books I read on vacation, and a guide to approximately what my "star ratings" mean:

***** – Amazing, memorable, makes me think about it after I’m done reading, makes me wish I knew either the author, the characters, or both.
**** – Great story, makes me think about it after I’m done reading.
*** – Good story, enjoyable and interesting while I’m reading, but not especially memorable 2 weeks later.
** – There’s something significant I don’t like about it, but it has some redeeming quality.
* – Unreadable, or horribly irritating to read.

Trickster’s Queen, by Tamora Pierce, ****
Good story, very interesting. Wonderful young female characters, and good, healthy relationships between male and female characters. I like Pierce’s universe. But it hasn’t fully lit up my imagination or made me wish I could hang out with her or the characters.

Operating Instructions, by Annie Lamott, *****
Funny. Witty. Full of bits that made me laugh out loud and read them to Jill. Full of other bits that she read out loud to me when she was reading the book. It was frightening to read at 29 weeks pregnant: Can I really DO this? Be a Mom to an infant?

Dark is Rising, by Susan Cooper, ***
The Chronicles of Narnia, but with only one lucky magic kid in the family, and everything he tries to do to fight evil works. No real conflict, sacrifice, or danger. I don’t get why this was a Newbery Honor Book.

Children of the Storm, by Elizabeth Peters, ***
After WWI, Amelia Peabody and the rest of the Emerson extended clan gathers in Egypt. This is a good, suspenseful addition to the saga of the Emerson family. I do just love these Victorian mysteries.

100 Things I Wish I Knew About My Baby’s First Year, by Randy Dean & Lorri Gorno, ***
Useful, in a limited way. Very easy to read, but bossy in tone.

I liked the feeding/sleeping schedule ideas. But although many of the opinions in the books were backed by some study or another, they were almost never labeled as opinions. Especially those related to disposable diapers and co-sleeping. I’ve read citations of studies on both sides of the diaper issue claiming that the other one is the reason for diaper rash. And the "babies are killed by being smothered if they sleep with adults" study the anti-co-sleeping people cite doesn’t seem to take into account the co-sleeping accessories currently on the market.

Now, Jill and I have formed our own views on diapers (we plan to use a combo of both) and on co-sleeping (not for us), but we KNOW that those are OUR views of what will work for OUR family. YMMV!

Dry, by Augusten Burroughs, ***
I liked Running With Scissors better than Dry, although this book was an interesting insight into the mind of a hardcore alcoholic. It was well-written, funny, and poignant, but I’m just not that interested in the subject matter.

In the Hand of the Goddess, by Tamora Pierce, ***
Book 2 in the Lioness series. Young Alanna is a page and is beginning to learn about love from George and Jonathan. So far, I like both other series’ better.

The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, by Ann Brashares, *****
Outstanding! I wish I’d read it sooner! I cried. The 4 girls were loving, self-absorbed, awkward, angry, and uniquely beautiful friends. They were believable teenagers, especially with the book being set in Bethesda, MD. I only hope that Smudge and the many babies being born around the same time he’s due will have the same quality of friendships. And a big THANK YOU to Cindy for haranguing me to read it NOW.

R is for Ricochet, by Sue Grafton, ***
A Kinsey Millhone mystery, but not the best one. Fewer than average plot twists and turns, with more of them relying on romantic complications than criminal activity. Good but forgettable.

Carpe Demon, by Julie Kenner, **
Crap-e Demon, not that the joke is likely original. If Buffy were less well-written, uber-Catholic, and retired into being a soccer mom with a secret past, would this be her story? Depressing to think so. After getting half-way through this book one evening, I woke up annoyed with the homophobic jokes and unwilling to waste any more time reading crap like: "[Timmy, the toddler son was] completely mesmerized by 4 gyrating Australian men. If he were 15 I’d worry. At 25 months, I figured we were okay."

Also, Kenner is writing about a politician’s family, and she CLEARLY has no idea what she’s talking about. Her "awkward politician’s family" moments were completely implausible and ridiculous. They didn’t even work to move forward her main storyline.

Blood Child (Second Edition with New Stories), by Octavia Butler, *****
Butler has a wild imagination, exploring love, slavery, aliens, reproduction, intelligence, race, and spirituality in new and thought-provoking ways. This book is especially interesting because each story is followed by comments from Butler on what the story meant to HER, and in some cases, her thoughts on some of the comments from literary critics and professorial types.

Tapping the Dream Tree, by Charles De Lint, ****
This book of short stories isn’t quite as compelling as Onion Girl or Waifs and Strays, but De Lint writes in a lovely voice, and I love the Newford universe he’s created. If you are new to his work, I would recommend starting with either Onion Girl or Someplace to be Flying.

 

We’re back!

St Martin was amazing! We absolutely loved it. The vacation was so relaxing and the French side of the island, where we stayed, has the best restaurants I’ve ever encountered. Mmmmmmm. Mmmmmmm. Mmmmmmmm.

And I cannot sing the praises of my amazing sunblock highly enough!!! Vanicream is not a chemical sunblock, like most kinds of sunscreen. They’ve actually figured out a way to make zinc oxide usable as a normal sunscreen, not just a thick white paste over your nose.

Having experimented, I can only REALLY recommend the SPF 35 Sunscreen Sport if you are going to be getting either sweaty or in the water. I used the SPF 60 my first two days, and I think it rinsed off almost instantly in the water, leaving parts of my upper chest and belly exposed for those 15 or 20 minutes that I played in the water but wasn’t completely under water.

Lil Smudge has reached the stage in his development where I can feel him kicking FREQUENTLY. Not quite all the time, but it seems that way. So it was extra nice not to have anything in particular to do, other that watch my tummy and see if it was going to start gyrating. Our first or second night there, that was at least half an hour’s entertainment for me and Jill, although sadly, he wouldn’t move visibly when our friends Mikki & Claire were looking.

I also had a fabulous birthday celebration! In addition to a wonderful waterfront dinner, Jill bought me some fabuloso jewelry.

The gang did a shopping trip to the Dutch side of the island, where jewelry and gemstones are apparently much less expensive than they are in the US. I elected to stay home during that trip — my stamina is WAY down. That turned out to be a good call, since it resulted in a beautiful necklace with both pink and blue sapphires and white diamonds AND sapphire and diamond earrings. The jewelry is birthday, Christmas, and welcome home Lil Smudge all wrapped up together and it completely blew my mind!

In addition to eating, napping, and getting presents, I also read a ton. Book reviews will be forthcoming shortly.

Re-Edited, hopefully for improved readability. :)

For your amusement while I’m on vacation, I’ve preset this quiz to publish while I’m enjoying the beach, the fruity beverages with little umbrellas, and whatever novel I’ve gotten to by now.
 

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You scored 53% Sociability and 64% Sophistication!   
There is a lot more to you than meets the eye. You certainly get plenty
of "action," but you’d be happier if those who lusted after you were
more selective. You hate being used as a general intensifier; haven’t
these people ever heard of underlining? Italics? And yes, you remember
the cruel words Mr. Joyce directed at you.
But you let none of this get you down; those who abuse you are destined
for a "special" reward, sooner or later. You feel particularly warm
toward periods, commas, exclamation points, and question marks, and
usually wish to have them next to you. Parenthesis can sometimes
trouble you.    

   

My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

You scored higher than 69% on Sociability

You scored higher than 51% on Sophistication

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Link: The Which Punctuation Mark Are You Test written by Gazda on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test

I read about this, tried it, and loved it. What a funny miserable failure.

For your blogospheric amusement while I am gone. :)

This is likely to be my last post for a week, maybe for a few days longer than that.

We leave at the crack of dawn on Saturday for a week-long vacation in St Maarten! This is our first "real" vacation, ie, longer than a long weekend, since our honeymoon. And obviously, the last one we’ll get before we’re parents. We are so excited we can hardly stand it.

My sun-sensitive burqa coverall finally arrived yesterday, weeks after the hat, dress, sarong, shirt, and SPF 60 non-chemical sunscreen. I still need a few more books. Wish us luck, fun, and lots of fruity drinks with umbrellas!

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