Tue 6 Jun 2006
We Survived. It Wasn’t That Bad.
Posted by Liza under The Real Live Boy
Sorry for the long delay in posting an update.
The home visit went just fine. Noah was utterly charming for most of it. The woman who conducted it spent most of the time asking Jill about her life story, in surprising detail for the early years. She didn’t ask any of the scary questions we tortured each other with from Saturday until she arrived. The closest she got was asking a few questions about Noah’s child care and our plans for his education, and she shared a few of her own very strong opinions, particularly about middle and high schools in the metro area.
After it was over, we took Noah out for some much needed outdoor time, and then came home and he and I crashed on the couch. His teachers say he hasn’t been napping well at school, probably because it gets loud and he seems to be upset by that. They also say most of the kids who react that way at first adjust within the first two weeks.
Then we went over to The Baby Juggler’s for pizza, venting, and decompressing. They oooooed and ahhhhhed over how much bigger and more responsive and fun Noah has gotten since they last time they saw him, and we ooooooed and ahhhhhhed over how much bigger and more verbal Mini and Jr have gotten since the last time we saw them. They liked Noah’s Hank the Duck, and Jr loved the little trucks on Noah’s overalls, and Noah liked their musical alphabet ball.
Here are two views of "the lion-headed thing." I assume it’s male because of the mane. The outside the softest material I’ve ever touched, and the inside is a polyester satin.






June 6th, 2006 at 11:29 pm
I think you should name the Lion “Buster”
…or if you prefer to go more hip-hop then “Bustah”!
June 7th, 2006 at 12:16 am
Hi! (an I suppose this counts as de-lurking myself). Can I throw out the suggestion of Hal. Its kinda soft like the lion, and kinda manly, and there is a big H in an orange circle that starts Hug Me, so I think the name should start with an “h” and hank didn’t seem right. Neither did harriot.
June 7th, 2006 at 2:57 am
I think “Harriot” is a perfect name, for a few reasons.
One, that Lion is wearing a skirt, and any time a guy wears a skirt, there’s a chance he’s being a she for a while (or longer) and would appreciate a female name.
Two, Harriot is similar to the last name of the Yorkshire vet, James Herriot, who had a brilliant sense of humor.
Three, if the lion turns out to be into crossdressing without gender bending, kind of like Eddie Izzard, it’s easy enough to shorten down to “Harry.”
Oh, and I’m really glad the home visit went well.
June 7th, 2006 at 9:09 am
I agree (somewhat with Reno)
How bout a nice, gender neutral name. I mean, that lion could easily grow up and figure out that (if he is a boy now) he’s not then.)
What better time than 4mo to start teaching Noah about gender differences;)
I’m so gay.
June 7th, 2006 at 9:18 am
the lion has a binky with his own picture on it! i vote for “linus” after linus on peanuts, because of the binky and because i like name aliteration (”linus lion”).
or, because the lion seems to be a baby (despite his mane) i like a baby-sounding name like louie.
June 7th, 2006 at 10:19 am
The other idea I had last night, about the lion’s name, was more descriptive. Soft the Lion. Thoughts?
June 8th, 2006 at 1:41 am
I’m so glad the visit went well.
The lovey looks like a Dandelion to me. Because he’s a lion and he’s dandy and, um, yeah. Dandelion.