Mon 24 Jul 2006
Congratulations, Jill!
Posted by Liza under Personal
Whoo-whoo! Congratulations, Jill!!!
My lovely wife got a promotion today! And with it, a much appreciated raise that gives us a little breathing room in that post-baby very tight budget.
Jill works incredibly hard at her job, and she’s a total rock star. It’s so nice to see her being recognized and appreciated for that, a big change from the job she had when we first met.
It came at the perfect time, too. We had a long talk on the drive to and from the beach, about what we want next, both as a family and as individuals.
What we created out of that conversation, was a commitment that over the next ~2 years, we will set ourselves on track to be complete, fulfilled, and prosperous as a family.
That means Jill starts trying to concieve later this year (henceforth "TTC" — for those of you not in the hopefully-baby-making section of the blogosphere), with the hope of being pregnant by Noah’s 1st birthday, and on a career path that is intellectually engaging and fulfilling no more than 2 years from now.
And it means that I dive into the new job head first, getting certified as a privacy professional, and publishing an article on a privacy/law enforcement/4th Amendment topic in the next year. I want to develop additional breadth in my area of expertise. I’m also looking at ways for us to live on my salary alone for some period of time if it turns out that Jill needs some further education or training for her next major career move.
It would be great if that looked like big honkin’ promotions and/or raises for me, but it also might look like moving to a less expensive location. (We met like 5 families this weekend who all moved to the same slightly-further-out suburb when they had or decided to have baby #2. A third of the other babies in Noah’s class live there too. It must be the place where liberals with babies move when they outgrow the reasonably priced homes in our suburb.) Or it might look like some combination thereof. Or like something we haven’t imagined yet. The lottery?
In any event, it’s an exciting time here in Casa Booski!
(I can hardly even contain my excitement that Jill is ready to start the pre-TTC prep work we want to do — prenatal vitamins, tracking her ovulation for a couple of cycles, setting up doctor’s appointments — so that in a few months we can start trying to make Noah a big brother!)




July 25th, 2006 at 12:00 am
what fantastic news–congratulations, jill! and how exciting about starting to think about making noah a big brother. wow!
kudos to you both, i can’t even entertain the idea of a sibling yet. i know there’s one out there for us, but… maybe NEXT fall we’ll start again.
what exciting things your family has coming this year!
July 25th, 2006 at 9:42 am
congrats jill!
July 25th, 2006 at 10:31 am
Congratulations Jill! And congratulations to you both for setting out such wonderful intentions. I have no doubt that you’ll manage to do exactly as you say — as it seems that you have already done so in the past.
July 25th, 2006 at 11:02 am
Yay Jill!! All great stuff. I hope #2 is an easy journey!
July 25th, 2006 at 11:09 am
Congratulations Jill.
Hope the TTC process is smooth… will you be using the same donor?
July 25th, 2006 at 11:24 am
Thanks, everybody!
We have 4 more IUI-ready “shots” of Noah’s donor, and are ****hoping**** that’s enough since he’s sold out. We aren’t ready to give serious thought to what happens if it isn’t.
Trista, I am a huge believer in declaring my/our intentions to the universe. It may not work perfectly, but I think it helps, sometimes in surprising ways.
July 25th, 2006 at 12:07 pm
Great news! Also, I love hearing how purposefully you live your life - talking about your dreams for the next couple of years. So wonderful!
July 25th, 2006 at 9:29 pm
Congrats Jill!!!! In oh so many ways! We love you!
July 26th, 2006 at 4:23 pm
Oh my gosh, this is so exciting!!!! Congratulations, Jill, on the big promotion! I hope you’re on the way to that two-baby family very soon.
Which reminds me of a blog I think you’d probably like (and I don’t see her in your links), http://blog.ozzilynbean.com/ The Bean Blog. Oz and her partner had their babies ten months apart (yikes!). Beautiful family, beautiful writing.
But to get back to YOU two, I’m so excited for you and your future plans. Yay!
July 26th, 2006 at 11:08 pm
Big congratulations to Jill, and we look forward to meeting the little brother or sister in a bit! Can’t wait to see all of you this weekend.