Wed 7 Mar 2007
Being Mindful About Money
Posted by Liza under Personal, Training and Development, Money
It turns out to be hard! I thought it might be, but it surprises me.
Day Two of my being disciplined about money during Lent: I thought that I had to go to traffic court this morning. When I arrived at work, I realized that I forgot to bring a book. The very first thing I thought was, “oh no! how can I get to a bookstore before court?”
(Yeah, I’m a geek. But the point here is the very first impulse was to buy an answer to the problem. Never mind that there is in fact a library 2 blocks from my office, and no bookstore between work and court, or nearly that close.)
Also, I spent half my drive to work arguing in my head about rationalizing a stop at the bagel place, or at the grocery store to buy donuts. Happily, self-disciplined me won. It helped that I had half a loaf of bread and half a box of cereal at the office. But my inner Queen of Rationalizing made some very good points, and I worry that she is not taking the coup well.
Does paying for parking ($3) at traffic court when I actually had the court date wrong count as frivolous spending?
Atlanta tickets must have been designed by the same people who created Florida’s butterfly ballots. Half the people in the courthouse atrium were wandering around asking each other how to figure out where you were supposed to go, and nearly every employee could be heard saying, “Your court date isn’t March 7th, that 07 is for the year.”
Sure enough, still closer inspection of my ticket showed — on a different line, nowhere near the March or the 07 — the number 28. My court date isn’t for another 3 weeks.
I did get two things in the mail that were post-bonus, pre-practicing financial discipline Internet purchases: Moo Cards and T-Shirts.
Thanks, David Brooks! I wouldn’t have gotten the t-shirts without your encouragement.







March 8th, 2007 at 9:43 am
so did you go to the library? you were lucky that your court date wasn’t actually march 3rd - what about all the people who miss their court dates? you’d think after spending the 7th of every month turning scores of people away, they’d get the picture and fix the tickets.
March 8th, 2007 at 9:45 am
This goal is very impressive! One of my colleagues used to say “It’s very hard to retrench.” I also found it not nearly as permanent as I may have wished.
We faced a very difficult financial situation and as soon as it eased we went back to many of our “wicked ways.” I was never a spender until I got married (except books) but have picked up many of my husband’s habits. Taking a break is a great exercise even if it doesn’t stick. “Mindful” is the key word and I don’t think the awareness fades. Yay Liza.
March 8th, 2007 at 11:04 am
I didn’t actually have time to go to the library or the bookstore. I took my state bar magazine and would have been stuck reading about automobile repossession law. Thank goodness it wasn’t really my court date!
The “7th of the month” swamp, it also made me wonder how long the tickets had been like that. Last year was it the 6th?
Re mindfulness, today had a big test. A work friend asked me to go get coffee with her — which is usually the hardest thing for me to not do. Instead, I got myself some break room coffee and walked downstairs with her.
March 9th, 2007 at 2:03 pm
You know, it would be really cool if you tracked all the frivolous money you didn’t spend. At the end, you could say you saved $xxx and do something special with it.