A meme from Blogher:

Who are you, in 10 seconds?

Mother, partner, transplanted midwesterner, lawyer, writer, laugher, worrier, reader, talker, listener, analyzer.

Or to give a slightly more conventional answer, I blog at LizaWasHere and LesbianFamily.org, I have a day job of being an attorney at an Internet communications company, I have been happily-but-non-legally married for 4.5 years, and have a 1 1/2 year old son. I’ve been a blogger since January 2005 and an active Internet user since 1987.

 

Some of you are probably curious for the post-reproductive endocrinologist visit update. I hope so, anyway, because practically all I have done since then is play “mental rubics cube” with the information he provided. You know, if we did X then Y, but if we did A, then B, what about P then Q? Which steps make the most sense, and in which order?

It isn’t graphic, but just in case you feel like knowing more about our babymaking thoughts is too much information, the rest is “below the fold.”

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Hey! The Cosco Scenera is on sale right now at Amazon.com for $31.03!!!

That’s an astounding price for a travel/backup or just plain cheap convertible car seat, good 5-40 lbs. I just ordered one for our trip, rather than hauling one of our large and heavy, if wonderful, Britax Boulevard.

Estelle says that the Scenera is “one of the better convertible seats on the market.” (Scroll way down.) Reviews on Amazon & epinions are mixed, but I’m inclined to trust carseat-obsessed Estelle over random individuals on the Internet.

Go buy one!

 

If you are at all interested in the issue of assisted reproduction, how/when/if to tell children about how they were conceived, especially if donor eggs (or sperm) were involved, go right now and read Lesbian Dad’s response to the Peggy Orenstein article in Sunday’s New York Times. That Lesbian Dad, she’s one smart Baba.

 
You Are a Cappuccino
You’re fun, outgoing, and you love to try anything new.
However, you tend to have strong opinions on what you like.
You are a total girly girly at heart – and prefer your coffee with good conversation.
You’re the type that seems complex to outsiders, but in reality, you are easy to please

As long as “girly-girl” means conversational and people-oriented, rather than fashionable, I’m afraid to say that I’ve been nailed by a silly Internet quiz.

Maybe I should change from my “usual” grande skim latte. Although the last time I ordered something “different” the poor barista was having a rough morning and twice made me something I didn’t order — first my usual, and then the fancy drink the woman in front of me ordered.

In reality, I am trying very hard to keep my expensive coffee purchases to a minimum. This is challenging when there is a starbucks right in the building.

Wish me luck today. In keeping with our newly open-ended unplans about trying to have a second child, today’s my “if I’m the one to do this, what do we need to do?” doctor’s appointment.

 

Now that more of Noah’s personality is really emerging, I find myself wondering what kind of things he’ll enjoy doing as he gets bigger, and of course, what he’ll be when he grows up.

I don’t know, of course, and I don’t want to push him. It’s just imagining — what jobs in the world are stimulated by the same things I imagine motivate his current activities?

The main thing he does that triggers these thoughts is obsess about things that don’t match or fit perfectly — the book with the bent cover page, the tile that’s broken, the one whatever that doesn’t fit the pattern.

I sit there and wonder, research scientist? Computer programmer? Or with his clear love of books, librarian? Mystery novelist?
This is just toddler development, I think, but there’s also his complete physical fearlessness. Yesterday he sprinted across our (dead end of a dead end) street yesterday, popcicle in hand, Mommy chasing after to keep things from getting too out of control, when he tripped and landed face first in the asphalt.

The tears resulting didn’t seem to be from the pain of landing, or the scraped knees, but from the fact that I didn’t hand him back the gritty popcicle or let him down to eat the bits that feel off into the street. When he did the same thing, minus popcicle, on July 4, a beer-drinking parade watcher announced that he wanted whatever was causing Noah to feel no pain.

Stunt man? (Please god no.) Football player? Sunday he crawled half way up the curved ladder-style monkey bars (like these) at our playground by himself –  mountaineer?

(I followed him up, arm firmly around his chest as he continued climbing. Only when he was about 7 feet off the ground, Jill was immediately beneath him, and he just couldn’t reach the next rung, did he stop. I started breathing again a few minutes later.)

 

Ok, I’m no Elizabeth Edwards, Amy Sedaris, or Esther Dyson, but I am thrilled to tell you that I have something in common with them!

All of us will be speakers at BlogHer 2007!

I was just asked to substitute in on the panel, “The Politics of Inclusion & Exclusion in Online Communities,” a topic that you probably already know is near and dear to my heart. The other participants look like very interesting women, and I think we’re going to have a great discussion.

If you’re coming to BlogHer, PLEASE join us!

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