I got tagged by Steph! For an entertaining meme where I tell you 7 weird or random facts about me.

Steph approached this meme in a very interesting and fresh way — she picked 7 dates in the past and described what was going on in her life at that time: 35, 30, 25, 20, 15, 10, and 5 years ago. So I’m going to copy that, agreeing with her logic that *something* about that is likely to produce random facts about me.

1) November 1972: I turned three years old, living with my parents in a duplex in Milwaukee. By that time, I was going to the Highland Community School, a very cool Montessori school in our neighborhood. My teacher, Tim, lived with his family in the same duplex. (Actually, I don’t know exactly when Katie and her family moved out, and Tim and his family moved in.)

2) November 1977: I turned 8 years old. My family had moved across town into a single-family home. It was the second year of Milwaukee’s school desegregation, and I was in the 4th grade at Lloyd Street School. Most of my friends from the neighborhood school I’d attended also switched to Lloyd, but we didn’t have classes together. I’d skipped 1st grade, so at this point, I was 1-1.5 years younger than most of my classmates. Two years later, I demanded to be allowed to repeat 5th grade so that I could be with kids my own age. I still don’t know how that worked, but it did.

3) November 1982: Rough year. My Dad ran for Congress in 1982, and lost in the September Democratic primary. Out of 13 candidates, he came in second. It was hard as hell on the whole family. I was in 8th grade. Around this time, the gym teacher pulled 6 or 8 of us girls out of class and made us talk about cliques and gossip. After the second time, I asked her why I was there, and she told me she wanted all of the popular girls to be in the discussion. I was totally shocked that she saw me as a popular girl.

4) November 1987: Fall of my first semester in college. By this time, I’d figured out that Reed was NOT where I belonged, that my roommate was a thoughtless bitch, and that I was too far away from my friends and family. But I had already made a lifelong friend, who took my out for my 18th birthday and made me feel special and loved.

5) November 1992: Fall of my first year out of college. I was BACK at Reed, working as a “Resident Adviser” aka live-in dorm supervisory staff. Reed had never had anyone like that before, and it was insanely controversial: the students who liked me introduced me to their friends as “Liza’s the fascist adult who lives in Foster-Scholz!” They hired me because the pressure was intense to hire both a woman and an alum, but no women graduates actually applied for the job. I was the closest thing. And I was completely miserable — it totally affirmed my decision to leave in the first place. I quit after the first semester.

6) November 1997: Fall of my first year out of law school. I was working for a small civil & constitutional rights law firm, and dating a man whom I fully believed I was going to marry. The innumerable levels on which we were wrong for one another were still hidden from my view.

7) November 2002: Jill and I were engaged, but not yet living together. Hee-hee. Isn’t that sweet? But the main reason was because her busy season kicked in days after she proposed, and we hadn’t had time for her to move. Also, my then-boss and I were absolutely not understanding each other, and we were both miserable. Jill took me away for a long weekend, the weekend after my grandmother died. When I got back into the office, we had a huge confrontation that was the end of my official lobbying career — in January 2003, I took my first corporate job and discovered that I loved it. (And that boss? We are still in touch and have a fine relationship now that I’m not miserably working for her.)

Who can I tag? It seems like I’ve read this meme on tons and tons of people’s blogs. Leave a comment if you haven’t been tagged and want to play. Or if you’re a non-blogging commenter, feel free to answer in the comments. :)

Between my birthday, which was Sunday, and the end of the calendar year, I usually get all self-reflective. I think a lot about the things that worked, and didn’t work so well, over the last year, and about what I hope for in the year to come.

37 was a surprisingly eventful year:

  • Noah turned 1, learned to walk and talk, and transitioned from “baby” to “toddler.”
  • We had a major change in our plans for growing our family, switching from trying to get Jill pregnant, to me going again.
  • I started trying again, and it’s been quite the roller-coaster. Today is Day 5 of the “two week wait.” (Or as we in the ttc community say it, I’m 5DPO.)
  • I had lasik surgery. I can see clearly, without glasses or contacts, for the first time in 29 years. Before the surgery, I could see clearly for 6 or 7 inches in one eye, and 8 or 9 inches in the other eye. I love the results. I haven’t had any problems, and the only ongoing stuff I have to do is put regular old eyedrops in my eyes in the morning, and occasionally at night.
  • Jill and I went to my 20 year high school reunion.
  • I hit my peak non-pregnant weight.
  • I started exercising — I have been swimming at the gym 10 times in the last 3 weeks. I’ve increased my distance from .32 of a mile to .39, both in 20-22 minutes.
  • My company went through a massive restructuring and laid off half the staff. My job changed less than most, although I have a new boss and a few new responsibilities.

Although I could not have imagined what this year would be like, I still like to think about what I hope for and imagine about year 38 & 2008.

As I’ve been thinking about it, what I keep coming back to is commitment. Commitment to my health, commitment to having another baby, commitment to Jill and Noah being happy and healthy, commitment to taking my writing seriously, and commitment to my own professional development.

Those things are also all about love — loving my family, loving myself, loving what I do. They’re about passion and vitality.

And aside from the almost-two temper tantrums, I think the next year is also going to be about fun. Most of the time, Noah is so much fun! I hear that gets better and better as it gets easier for him to communicate. Plus Jill got us all season tickets (partial season plan) for the new Atlanta WNBA team, so we’ll have some pre-planned social outlets. (With other families like ours, and with eye candy!)

I hereby declare that 38 is going to be all about bringing on my passion and vitality, in all aspects of my life. That, and having a baby.

I’m going to break that down into some more concrete bites. During the year of 38 and/or 2008, I will:

  • Have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.
  • Keep up with my swimming and have gone swimming 100 times by the time the baby is born.
  • Earn at least $1000 from my writing, including blog ads. (This one is going to be a stretch!)
  • Implement my ideas for improving the flow of my day to day work. (This one I need to keep vague here, but my point is that currently I let the immediate demands get in the way of planning and implementing a system that would make those demands easier in the future.)
  • See to it that Noah is in a day care program where we are confident that he is happy, safe, and learning, in an environment that respects families like ours.
  • Find a way to have a date with my wife at least once per month.

And if all my will and intentionality and planning and hoping and loving for this new baby don’t work? I will get my BMI into the normal range before I turn 39.

I promise, there will be a real post by tomorrow morning.

In the meantime, here’s a very funny silly Internet quiz courtesy of Shelli. They didn’t have my absolute favorite alcoholic beverage (a toss-up between New Glarus Brewing’s Uff-Da Bock and their Wisconsin Belgian Red) but they had a mighty fine selection.

It would take 19 bottles of Pete’s Brewing Winter Brew to kill me

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Heh. That’s what they think. I think the real number is closer to 5 or 6. My BlogHer roomie may recall the loopy damage that 2 gin & tonics did to me last summer. As far as drinking goes, I am a lightweight.

Like watching Noah go absolutely bat shit crazy playing with his laundry basket. The same EXACT one that has been in his room since he was born.

Noah Enjoys His Laundry Basket 5 Noah Enjoys His Laundry Basket 12

There are 11 more in the series, all up on Flickr.

In the ones where he’s laying down, he prefaced it by saying, “Night-night, Mommy!” Also? He’s figured out “pretending to be asleep.” You make snoring noises, with your eyes wide open.

Last night, we had our best parenting/family moment so far. It was one of those moments that make you understand why people have 17 children.

Noah was sitting on my lap in the rocking chair, and Jill was sitting next to us on the floor. We’d just finished reading More More More, Said the Baby, and it seemed like he was getting sleepy.

“Mommy!” Noah said to Jill.

“Yes, Noah,” Jill answered, moving closer.

“Mommy!” Noah said to me.

“Yes, Noah,” I answered.

“Two Mommies!” beamed Noah. Then he threw one arm around my neck and leaned the rest of his body towards Jill, reaching for her with his other arm. He gave us both a sweet hug and announced, “Kisses, Mommy!”

Of course we covered him with kisses. Noah kept hugging, so we added in some “I love you!” which he enthusiastically repeated.

In the mean time, we stared at each other, both almost overcome by the deliciousness of the moment.

Something to be grateful for, indeed. And wish us luck, because this morning I drive up to the inconvenient RE’s office to try to get pregnant with another one. :)

This morning, Noah had his usual “we’re leaving the choo-choos and going to school now” meltdown as I tortured him into his jacket and shoes.

Once I actually began driving, before I even finished the first turn, Noah asked, “Church?”

I finished the first turn and hit the signal for the second one, a right turn out of our neighborhood in the direction of day care — not a continued forward towards the other exit from the neighborhood in the direction we take to church.

As soon as the car began to turn, Noah screamed. “No! Dat way! Dat way! Church!”

I really hope we get into the church day care soon.

This morning, when I came out of our room after getting showered and dressed, Jill was working on changing Noah’s horrifying, scary, smelly, what-died-in-there? poopsplosion diaper.

I walked in to see a cookie disappearing into Noah’s mouth. This was something of a surprise, as we don’t allow cookies for breakfast.

Seeing my glance, Jill explained, “He found it. In a plastic container. On the table where we keep his backpack.”

I think this marks the end of pre-packed “just in case” snacks in (or around) Noah’s backpack. At least in transparent containers.

By the way, he’s gotten a lot better at using his super-cool, non-toxic, nearly-indestructible, recyclable and reusable, kid-size water-bottle. I think we’ll be investing in a few more and packing up the “babyish” sippy cups.

Have I mentioned that I loved Noah’s Sigg bottle so much that I ordered two more grown-up sized ones?

I read not long ago that plastic water bottles are some insane percentage of landfill matter. Between that, the fact that I prefer my water with some flavor added, and that Sigg bottles are cool looking, I made the switch.

I bought this one (1 liter) and also this one (0.6 liters). The 0.6 liter size is pretty much an ordinary soda or water bottle, the other is too large for me to really comfortably drink from directly.

And in other news, this cycle is looking good:

  • 2 good-size and 1 runty follicle, just like in the cycle when we conceived Noah
  • Follow-up doctor’s appt on Weds, when we will probably trigger ovulation
  • Probable giant trek half-way to Tennessee first thing in the morning on Thankgiving, to do the insem
  • That’s just before I turn 38
  • And my mom brought me home from the hospital on Thanksgiving when I was a newborn
  • And my due date would be a couple of days after Jill’s birthday
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